Goals and Expectations

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Many times in my life I have seen people talking about different ways of running projects. Where to start and what to do first and so on. I have realized and learnt first you have to define the vision and the specific goal. Without that any kind of project is doomed.

I have been accused heavily for being dishonest, steeling and not fulfilling tasks and so on. (see former posts) The irony in this though is that I really tried to clarify our vision and goals many years ago. Most of the time the feedback was “I don’t know”, “we have to start the basics first” or “you do it”. I realize now that I shouldn’t have let it go because now the other one claims that it is all wrong, we shouldn’t be where we are today and there’s all the money?

I can in one way understand the frustration of not being where you want to be but on the other hand, if you don’t steer the ship from the beginning don’t expect to end in the right harbor.

So the earlier you define your goals the better you will work to fulfill your expectations. That’s the same principle for a person, a coach or a team.

To do or not to do, is the action

I'm amazed how little people actually accomplish of what they say they really want to do.
I often hear people say they want to train more but they can't because there's to much stress at work. I don't really see a problem in that because everybody know that one of the cures to stress is working out. A member at the club "Kali Sikaran Göteborg" told me today that he really appreciated the training because he had a tough season at work and this was his relief. There you go, this man got it.

All my life I trained the most during the hectic highs, and some of my close friends have a really chaotic life and still work out a lot because thats the only way to handle it.

The society of today have high expectations on everybody and we also hive high demands on ourself to do all those things to be fulfilled and happy.

The conclusion is this. Take care of your basics, sleep, eat and work out. Then you have the discipline and energy to do ALL the other things as well as long as you don't cheat on the first three. I can do it, my friends can do it, so can you!

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