I got a question the other day about important features and values for success. In my opinion RESPONSABILTY is a major one. You are responsible for your own health, happiness and success. It’s not easy though and many people prefer the easy way even if it got a price to it.
The easy way is to make a story why you are not healthy, happy and so on. Then you give yourself an excuse to say it’s ok not to be healthy because bla,bla,bla…….. This makes it easy for the moment but the price you pay are mediocrity.
Or even worse, blame somebody else for your personal downfall. I can’t succeed because he/she did this or that to me. This creates the scarcity mentality because after a while everybody expect to be blamed and you will be alone without someone to blame. That’s scary!
To avoid these traps and pay the high price from above you have to make a tuff decision and make this statement truly yours. You are responsible for everything from the smallest to infinity as long as it includes you.
When you find yourself in a challenge ask these questions: What can I do about this?, what’s my part in this?, how can I avoid this in the future?.
So let’s go find yourself a challenge and give answer to these questions. Any blaming or stories has to be punished severely.
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